Notes from the General Manager, By Diane Jacoutot
A US woman is suing her former employer because, she claims, she was fired for being “too hot looking”. Working at a lingerie warehouse, 29 year old Lauren Oades (allegedly) offended her religious male employers by wearing provocative clothing that clearly displayed her, um, assets and was fired because they couldn’t stand the heat of her hotness. She held a press conference wearing a form fitting black sequined mini dress and studded black boots causing the media photographers to crash into each other as they photographed her holding a pose. I think she got their attention. Which is clearly what she was after!
Whilst in the US it is not usually legal for employers to fire you for dressing in a sexy way, this is not true in many other countries around the world. At Teachanywhere we often get asked about dress codes from teachers going to local international schools especially in the Middle East. What to wear to school?
In Muslim countries the general rule for men is to wear at least a shirt and tie but ideally a suit and tie. (Don’t worry, everything is air conditioned). In the Middle East, as in many other traditional societies, you are judged by what you wear. So if you saunter in to school wearing trainers and a t-shirt, you will not only put the fee-paying parents off who expect a high level of professionalism and might demand a transfer for their son or daughter, but you won’t do your career any favours either.
For women going to local international schools, I recommend you wear very conservative clothing at school. Not even a hint of cleavage, shirts that cover your elbows and always cover your bum and knees. Most women working in state schools in the UAE or local international schools in the Middle East pick up very inexpensive longish skirts that come almost to their ankles and loose fitting shirts. Many others visit the inexpensive seamstresses to design their own. So don’t bother trolling through racks and racks of mini-skirts at home – plan a day of shopping when you arrive. Now, if you wear trousers, you should definitely wear a shirt over them that is long enough to completely cover your bum.
Abayas, the over-dresses worn by many Muslim women, are not usually required though I know quite a few women working in state schools wear them anyway out of respect for local custom and frankly, because they are easy to throw on. (I found this). Non Muslim women do not usually need to cover their hair.
In other countries, if you are teaching in an international school you are usually expected to look professional and any dress code will be in the staff handbook. Assume the suit and tie route and its female equivalent. When in doubt, go conservative rather than sexy or casual. You will make a better impression and get off on the right foot. Save the sexy and casual for the weekends.
So much as Miss Oades was within her rights to dress as she liked, I don’t think she was particularly culturally sensitive and certainly her choice to look sexy cost her more time and money than she originally bargained for. Was it worth the cost? Only she will know after what will probably be years of litigation.
So tempting as it is, I don’t recommend you follow in her stiletto’d footsteps. You are, I believe, what you wear.